Words are powerful. They come attached with lots of emotional feelings and connotations.
Lets just say someone shouted in your face "FUCK you!". What would your feelings be? Anger? Frightened? Funny? Furious? Fuck-you-too?
Lets just say someone made you really really angry. How would you describe it? He stabbed me in the back? He fucked me up? He pissed me off? He stepped on my toes?
I just realised that how you described it would likely lead to how you feel and respond to the whole situation. Describe it painfully and you may end up grabbing that asshole by his collar and kicking his balls out, or slash his car tyres and add a few long scratches on the paint work... violent eh?
Right now, I will exert some self-control and say things are just irritating me.
Belacan says.... "watch out for my cilipadis" ;)